.But what Astrid doesn't realize but is a fact that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- who has 2 children-- can easily verify: The simple fact that your relationship with your moms and dads improvements and also advances as you both age, and with any luck for the better. "Your world centers around [your children] when they're infants [and also] it's so much job yet attractive," O'Hara claims. "Later, you really overlook that, due to the fact that then you can't get all of them to perform anything you prefer them to carry out, due to the fact that they start establishing their very own thoughts, their own opinions." And eventually, you find yourself in the spot O'Hara, whose boys reside in their 20s as well as 30s, discovers herself right now, capable to gain from her children. "They're simply such cool young fellas," she points out. "I am actually certainly not their pal, yet I adore possessing discussions with them as well as getting to know just how they consider lifestyle.".